Michelle Moore is a public relations firm president in Columbus. She and her ex-husband were married ten years before they divorced. They worked together during their marriage and they worked together after their divorce.

For many people, imagining seeing their ex in the workplace after a divorce or dissolution is nearly unbearable. It was not that way for Moore. In her opinion, despite the problems in their personal relationship, she and her husband made a great professional team.

Because folks are working more than ever to support their households, it is no wonder that workplace romances have become more commonplace. But when a workplace romance results in a marriage, it may end in a dissolution of that marriage. Moore offers some tips to help you cope.

What if you and your ex work on a team together?

If you and your ex worked on a team with others prior to your break-up, your dissolution or divorce may make your co-workers uncomfortable. They may feel caught in the middle, but unwilling to take sides, and you wouldn't want them to. Alienating a member of the team is a surefire way to destroy the team's productivity.

Moore suggests praising your ex in public. When the team members see you are capable of appreciating your ex's professional abilities even after the break-up, they will be reassured that they are welcome to continue to behave professionally.

Avoid personal communications at work

With the advent of e-mail, social networking, and text messaging, it is even easier to say what is on our minds -- especially in the heat of the moment. Unfortunately, we all know we may not be not thinking clearly in the heat of the moment.

Moore recommends avoiding personal communications with your former significant other while at work, and avoiding making personal comments about the relationship on social networking sites. If you broadcast your personal business to colleagues, it can make them uncomfortable. Also, keep in mind that bored information tech workers may not be above reading any e-mails you send from work equipment.

When your ex is your boss

Moore suggests tread carefully. If your ex was your boss throughout your relationship, you are probably both already aware of the delicate balance required between your home life and your work life if you want to keep things harmonious. If anything, the balance becomes even more delicate and fragile after a break-up. Your goal should always be to protect both of your careers.

Take the high road

As always, do your best to take the high road. Try to remember the things you like about your ex, and deal with him or her on that level. Appreciation goes a long way in ensuring a happy workplace relationship.

Source: Forbes, "How To Work With Someone After A Romantic Breakup," Jaquelyn Smith, July 21, 2011